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This week I interview the founder of matchmaking company Three Day Rule, Talia Goldstein. We discuss how the dating game has evolved since the company’s inception in 2013, and she reveals why her business has flourished in the face of both an upswing in dating apps and an unforeseen pandemic. We discuss how seemingly limitless options on the apps lead people to set impossibly high standards – like seeking out the wealthy, 6-foot tall businessman who represents a mere 1% of the male dating pool. We close out the episode with Talia’s expert opinion on which fictional couples are actually well-suited for each other, and which are better off broken up.

Follow Three Day Rule for dating life inspiration and heartwarming success stories : @threedayrule

Dive into the world of matchmaking and sign-up for the database at : threedayrule.com

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This week I interview long-term high school friend Amanda Gittleman. We reflect on how growing up in “America’s Finest City” shaped our predisposition to hating Los Angeles, and how our opinions have changed after twelve years, days worth of traffic, and a handful of memorable celebrity encounters. Amanda shares what it was like to work one block off of Rodeo Drive, in a job that indirectly introduced her to Janice Dickinson, Bradley Cooper, and most importantly, her now-husband, Davey Varella. We recap the journey of their relationship, which evolved from a chemistry-fueled friendship into a serious relationship just months before she moved across the country for two years. A very relatable listen for anyone who’s ever struggled with any aspect of a long distance relationship, like how to resolve fights from afar, ensuring love language needs are being met, and managing the often unfair expectations people place on your relationship when you do finally return to the same city.

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For a glimpse into my life when I’m not talking about dating : @lesliegnope

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Today’s episode explores a different philosophy around online dating, as I interview cofounders Julie Griggs and Danielle Dietzek about the vision behind their dating app, Fourplay. We discuss how one spontaneous, unsuccessful double date experience evolved into a much more successful business venture centered around dating exclusively in duos. They explain how their mission extends beyond giving people a built-in wingperson, and actually serves to reduce the anxiety and dangers currently associated with meeting a stranger for a one-on-one date. The episode closes with a spirited debate around which guy would get our attention if we found ourselves on a double date with these iconic bromance pairs.

Download “Fourplay – Double Dating App” from the Apple App Store or Google Play Store to bring a little more Fourplay into your dating life! Find them on:

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@fourplaysocial on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook

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This week I interview Chris Best – the previously unnamed dating app expert referenced in episode 1 (“Interstates & Tinder Dates”). Here to reveal the science and strategy behind the wisdom he’s shared with my premiere guest Denzel Walkes (and to refute claims that he is a sex addict), Chris dives straight into the scientific, if unromantic, truths behind how dating apps actually work. Chris’ insights serve to break us out of the damaging trap of tying emotional well-being into our experience on the app, through exposure into the degree of control that the app engineers hold, and candid discussions about what we can do to break free from that control (HINT: it involves money). This discussion is perfect for anyone who’s ever wondered “where did all of the attractive people go?” while swiping, who struggle to maintain momentum when they DO get an attractive match, or who have simply experienced the feeling of disillusionment around the app experience as a whole.

for more musings, delectable cocktails to up your quarantine drinking experience, and insight into the fitness journey that resulted in an actual shoutout from fitness influencer Chloe Ting : @chr1sbest

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Marriage Story highlights entertainment executive Mimi Slavin and her journey of finding love, coming to a breaking point that nearly resulted in divorce, then salvaging the relationship to come out stronger than ever. She opens up about the disheartening online dating experiences that led her to take a ten-year hiatus, and how a friend’s forced dating app sign up was the push needed to get back out there and find her now husband. Throughout the episode, Mimi imparts wisdom around the benefits of looking beyond your dating checklist, working through the process of rebuilding trust, and validating your partner for healthy communication.

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This week I catch up with former coworker and dating life confidante Darice Murphy, who is currently thriving in quarantine – despite moving in with her partner ONE day before shelter in place took hold. We backtrack to reflect on the dating history that led to her present day relationship, including the guesswork around platonic vs. flirtatious interactions and the role apps play in minimizing that as a queer individual, shifting from casual to intentional dating, and learning how to stop pretending to be the “cool girl.” Our discussion rounds out with Darice’s insights into how to set yourself up for success when co-habitating, plus a game of partner Red Flag or Dealbreaker.

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Today’s episode brings the perspective of a Hollywood success story in the midst of her rise to fame – Cassidi Parker of Netflix’s Dear White People and FX’s Better Things, whose career also boasts commercial acting, stage performance, and sketch comedy at UCB. Cassidi divulges all of her candid thoughts on dating within the acting community, including her choice to actively avoid dating fellow actors in her earlier stages of dating. She explains many of the misconceptions around acting, and how they can manifest in a relationship. Finally, she shares her secret for maintaining a healthy self image in a career that’s stereotypically stringent about appearance.

For a behind the scenes look at life as an actress : @classcity

For tales from the middle of an actor’s success : Before You Know My Name podcast

To answer the question “What has she been in?” : cassidiparker.com and Cassidi Parker on IMDb

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Picking up where the cliffhanger of “How to Date an Introvert (Pt. 1)” left off, this week’s episode dives into my history with Nick Geilenfeldt, who undeniably knows me more…intimately than any former guest. I candidly dive into my own personal experience dating an introvert and debate whether or not it inspired me to (VERY uncharacteristically) make the first move. From there, I open up about my thoughts on the highlights and difficulties of that relationship, and the circumstances that eventually led to its demise. Finally, the episode ends with a Los Angeles-inspired game of Would You Rather, after Nick makes a passionate case against LA.

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On this week’s episode of Interstates & Heartbreak, Nick Geilenfeldft opens up about dating as an introvert. We debate what it means to be an introvert in the first place, from the actual definition to the ways in which it manifests itself. Nick reveals the difficulties of being an introvert within the dating landscape, like reluctance to go out and the anxiety around approaching girls when you do, and overall the overall impact it has on self-confidence. Additionally, we rehash some stories of when introversion met its match – alcohol.

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For a glimpse into my life when I’m not talking about dating : lesliegnope

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Get ready for some HOT takes on this week’s episode of Interstates & Heartbreak, as I speak with Tuesday English about how to hold yourself and the men you date to Rihanna-level standards. We discuss “bitchy” behaviors like refusing to cook or pay for things early in the dating process, and hypothesize why these acts may actually be beneficial to attracting quality men. This is the perfect episode for anyone who’s feeling fatigued by swiping through the seemingly endless sea of scrubs on the apps, or who wonders if they’ve ever been guilty of being or dating a scrub themselves.

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